Added STDOUT.flush to daemons_extension

Fixed annoying output in stop_all where it was getting called n-worker times

UPdated daemons extension to take arg NOT to create pidfiles and ignore pid files for stop if force_wait_time is specified

Fixed bug in daemons_ext (sleep nil)

Updated daemons_ext to allow for sleepy_time param

Use unix kill instead of application array

Took extra debug out of deamons_ext

Updated daemons_ext to make sure kill -9 works